BREAK THE MASK Workshop:
Stop People-Pleasing, Say NO without guilt & Stop giving a fuck about being judged.
A 90-Minute Workshop for the High-Achiever Who's Exhausted by Being Everything to Everyone-
And is Ready to Stop Performing and Start Living
If you catch yourself replaying conversations hours later, wishing you'd had the courage to say what you meant, instead of -once again- being agreeable and nice...
Your client emails you "urgently" at 9:47pm and you reply instantly, even though you'd promised yourself you would unplug hours ago and prioritize personal time..
Or your partner makes plans for the weekend without asking, and even though you had other commitments you put on the 'sounds great, let's do it' face and resentfully cancel your own plans...
There is a mask you are wearing.
A thick, sticky, smelly mask.
A mask that keeps you stuck doing projects, attending events and wasting time in things that you KNEW you should have said NO to.
A mask that keeps people seeing you as the "Go-To Person!" and getting angry at the slightest sign that you may want to say NO to their requests... (If you were a superhero, your people would probably name you "Always-Available")
A mask that is already costing you hundreds of thousands (or millions) in wasted time overdelivering to clients who did not invest accordingly, micromanaging drama at work because of toxic team members (who you're afraid to fire because you know a detail or two about their personal struggles) and taking on meaningless projects that kill your focus on what truly matters.
This mask is a toxic one.
It creates strokes.
It creates cancer.
It creates anxiety, depression and insomnia.
It makes it hard to breathe, it speeds up your heart and it burns your stomach.
It also ensures your belly fat spills over your belt, just in case!
(After all, it's a survival mask, so it's constantly thinking you may need the extra fat to survive a threat out there.)
If you look around your big office, your new home and a recently-upgraded car and still feel empty..
It's not that those things mean nothing, not at all!
It's good that life has been abundant with you.
But how to enjoy the scent of a flower when your nose is clogged?
How do you watch a sunset with a blindfold on?
Or how do you feel alive and empowered when you still wear a mask?
Your Success Mask is Slowly Killing Your Soul.
I get it, you're a solid man/woman.
The reliable one.
The problem-solver.
The one who never says no.
Your success is built on a foundation of accommodation, agreeability, and always putting others first.
But here's what nobody talks about: This pattern isn't just exhausting—it's creating a prison where you're both the warden and the prisoner.
Every time you say yes when you want to say no, you betray yourself.
Every time you accommodate when you want to assert, you abandon your truth.
Every time you smile when you want to scream, you suffocate your authentic self.
The result? A growing resentment that you can barely acknowledge, let alone express.
You resent the people who take your generosity for granted. You resent the clients who assume you're always available. You resent the family members who never consider your needs. You resent yourself for not having the courage to speak your truth.
This isn't about being ungrateful for your success. This is about recognizing that success built on self-abandonment is hollow success.
You've mastered the art of being everything to everyone while becoming nothing to yourself.
The mask you've been wearing has served its purpose—it helped you build success, gain approval, and avoid conflict.
But it's also created a life where you're performing rather than living, accommodating rather than asserting, and slowly dying inside while everyone thinks you're thriving.
It's time to break the mask and reclaim the person you were meant to be- powerful, authentic, and unapologetically true to yourself
When you stop being everything to everyone,
you finally become authentic (and therefore kind) to yourself.
You close your laptop by 6pm and stop picking up calls to go for a walk, go on a date or hit the sauna, finally enjoying the very freedom that had you become an entrepreneur
Your friend asks to borrow money once again and you feel at peace saying "I'm not comfortable lending money anymore, but I'd be happy to help you create a budget."
You no longer feel guilty for spending your salary on YOU.
A new trip, a leadership-workshop, a new set of clothes or even a new gadget you'd been curious about for months.
You no longer feel like you live only for others of have to justify acts of self-care, or invest every bit of your time and resources into others' needs and desires.
In essence, you get your POWER to be you.
Your LOVE for you.
And therefore, your love for life.
When you drop the mask, you reveal your truth.
And only in truth, you find beauty, meaning and peace.
IS THIS WORKSHOP RIGHT FOR YOU?
This workshop is specifically designed for the successful individual who:
• Have built success by being agreeable and accommodating
• Feel exhausted from constantly putting others' needs before their own
• Struggle with hidden resentment despite being seen as "successful" and "nice"
• Find it nearly impossible to say no without feeling crushing guilt
• Feel like they're performing a role rather than living authentically
• Want to maintain their success while reclaiming their authentic power
• Are ready to risk disappointing others to finally honor themselves
This is NOT for:
• Anyone not ready to face the discomfort of authentic expression
• Those seeking to consume information not transformation
• High-achievers not willing to risk some relationships for the sake of truth
In this workshop, you will:
Understand the exact root of your people-pleasing and codependency
Learn how to stop abandoning yourself for others
Reclaim your vitality and joy by releasing stuck emotions from years of wearing masks
Fall in love with saying "NO" to reclaim your power
Feel FREE and reconnected to who you are and what YOU want.
Exactly what you get:
The Break The Mask Workshop
Lifetime Access to the replay- Watch it anytime, forever
BONUSES:
2023 Boundaries Workshop- Recordings from a 3-part video series where Nico walks you step-by-step into understanding vulnerability and healthy boundaries (in the context of relationships) ($770 value)
Break The Mask GPT- A personalized journey designed for breakthroughs
WORKSHOP REPLAY
Lifetime access to replay
Boundaries: Step-by-step training workshop recording (from 'The Academy'/ NIco's Archive)
Break The Mask - Tailored GPT Access
"Nico broke me..."
"In the best kind of ways. I stopped hanging out with people I didn't want to, I drew boundaries with my employees and even learned to prioritize my needs in relationships.
I feel like I just found my power back."
Denis I. - Law Firm Founder
"I finally put myself first."
"I was that business woman who'd wear the pants in her relationships, taking care of my parents, my siblings, and everyone else.. I now feel free to say no, to go on trips alone, to not have to be the one that holds everyone together or plans every vacation.
I get to be ME."
Veronica C. - CEO Scala Elevators
"Life CHANGING!"
"It was EXACTLY what I needed.
If you feel stuck..
If you feel you need a new page in your life.. If you are craving a completely different kind of adventure or experience..
If you feel there is something holding you back.. Just do this!
You will profit for the rest of your life.
Peter K. - Security Expert
Not just what you do, but who you become.